The Goodbye that means you did Good

I’m here to remind you—everything is going to be okay. ❤️

As you help your young adult settle into this next chapter—whether it’s college, boot camp, their first job, or a trade program—take a moment to recognize what this really is: the moment you’ve been preparing them for.

You’ve spent years nurturing, guiding, and shaping them into a self-sufficient, goal-oriented, and thoughtful human being. And now? They’re stepping into the world, ready to apply everything you’ve poured into them. You did that. 👏🏽

Yes, it’s okay to cry. Yes, it’s okay to feel the ache of change. But try not to let those emotions spill over into fear for your child. Let them see your pride more than your worry. Let them feel your love, not your anxiety. Because moving forward is a natural, necessary part of growing up—and they need your quiet confidence as much as your hugs.

Give yourself permission to grieve the goodbye—but also give yourself permission to celebrate. This is a milestone for both of you. And as they begin their new adventure, it’s time to start dreaming about yours too.

Your nest may be quieter now, but it’s not empty—it’s full of love, memories, and new possibilities.

We’ve got this. 💛

#EmptyNesterJourney #NewBeginnings #YouDidIt #LettingGoWithLove #NextChapter

Major mom moment: my baby girl got her own place

I’m bursting with pride! My daughter just got her very first apartment—on her own—and handled the entire process like a boss. From researching listings, touring potential spots, submitting the application, following up, and finally signing the lease—she did it all independently. 🙌

This is a huge leap from last year, when she and a roommate jumped into a lease in NYC without even seeing the place first (and without telling me, of course 😅). Thankfully, that apartment turned out okay—minus the electric bill shocker. But this time? She came prepared with a list of questions, a clear vision, and lessons learned.

Now, I despise moving—the packing, the lifting, the unpacking. But of course, I took one for the team and helped. Imagine my surprise when I showed up and everything was perfectly packed, labeled, and ready to roll! She even reserved the freight elevator for a smooth move-in. Who is this grown woman?! 😮

Move-in day was seamless. I watched her confidently interact with leasing staff, inspect her new place, take notes, and make sure everything lined up with her lease. Then came the best part—getting the keys. When she walked into her new apartment, the look on her face said it all: pure joy and pride. She strolled around like she just won the gold medal in “Adulting.” 🏅

Watching her take each step with confidence reminds me how quickly our babies grow into capable, amazing adults. I’m in awe. Every. Single. Time. 💖

#ProudMom #EmptyNesterLife #SheDidThat #AdultingWin #NewBeginnings